Friday, July 13, 2012

The Little Everyday Things...




Sometimes I like to step back and look at my life from a different perspective.  I like to see the details and not just the big things that overwhelm and consume most of my thoughts.  There are so many things that are just ordinary things, but in a few years they won't be ordinary anymore...

They'll be nonexistent, and I know most I'll miss them...

Terribly.

And, I'll wish that I could go back and experience them just one more time.  Like one of Jack's sweet kisses or the sound of Emery's baby giggles or my big boys coming in the back door with sweat dripping from their brow and mud caked on their John Deere boots.

We all have our things, the things that make our life uniquely ours.  I live in the country with a house full of red headed boys and one little redheaded girl.  Think about it.  Take time to stop your day and ponder the things that make your heart light.  Then, celebrate those things, and thank God for giving them.

I am fully thankful.  I walked around the house today and took pictures of any little thing I saw that was a reflection of this stage of the journey.  I do this every now and then taking pictures of the things that are usually overlooked.  Such as...

Joshua and Elijah both brought me one of these today...


 "Look, Mama, it's a heart for you!!"

My gratitude journal...


Going back and reading old entries makes a weary soul feel full again!

And, this has been out on my counter all day.  I'm pondering these...


Trying to focus on character and not just academics.

Miss Em curling her toes...


I love this sign that hangs by the back door...


Muddy boots...


One of my favorite trees...


The walkway to the gym ~ completely muddy...


I'll miss these sunbleached and worn completely ragged trucks one day...



The crabapples...


Garden fresh tomatoes...


Elijah doing the fish face...


Eriky trying to do the fish face...


A bit of spilled milk...


Dirty floors and the claw foot couch my sweet husband surprised me with last weekend.  He got it for well under half the original price!


And, Jack's sweet little curls...


Just a few of the things that make my heart sing!

Monday, July 09, 2012

My Irish Twins :-)

photo by Brandy Jaggers

I have always wanted twins.  Every first sonogram I hope and pray that maybe this time God will bless us with twins!  But, wisely, He has always given us exactly what we need ~ one baby at a time.  

One afternoon when I was nearly full term with Emery, I went shopping.  And, as I was checking out, I was making conversation with the sales lady.  She was asking questions assuming I was a new mom, and I assured her that I had everything I could possibly need for this baby since she was my sixth child!  The sales lady showed her surprise at the number of children I have.  Then, a lady behind me in line asked, "What ages are your children?"  So, I went down the line... "9, 7, 4, 3, and 11 months"  The lady behind me smiled, "Oh, they'll be Irish twins!"  I had never heard this term before, so I looked at her confused.  She explained, "Your youngest two.... If they are less than a year apart, they call that Irish twins."  I smiled at the thought, then went home and googled the term.  She was right!

How fun!  I was tickled to know that I would be having twins ~ even if they weren't really technically twins!  And, now that Emery is here with us, I am even more excited to watch them grow up so close in age.  Elijah and Erik Daniel are 16 months apart, and I thought that was a challenge.  But, I have found that this adjustment ~ even though it is only 4 and half months different ~ requires much more of me!  I love it, but, wow, it keeps me hopping!  And, no matter how hard I try, often someone is crying! I just can't meet both their needs at the same time.  But, Jack loves her.  He leans in toward her when I walk by her swing or her crib.  He likes to put his head by hers and say, "Mmmmmmm..."  It is his way of giving her love, and it makes mama's heart smile BIG!

Jack is so curious....


I like to watch them interact and imagine, wonder, dream about what their relationship will be like when they are older....


Jack is such a happy and fun little guy, and Emery is so precious and sweet.  I think they will make a wonderful combination!!!


IMG 3203 from Erin Dukes on Vimeo.

Saturday, July 07, 2012

Happy 3 Months, Little Em!


The most common question that I am asked is if I can tell a difference in Emery yet ~ a difference that distinguishes her as a female from all my sweet male children.  My usual answer is, "No, not yet!"  But, the last few weeks I have noticed something slightly unusual about her, something she does that the boys did not do.  And, that is...

she talks A LOT!!!  If I put her in her swing, she will babble incessantly to the little giraffe toy on it.  While I change her diaper, she talks and talks and talks to me.  Sometimes I'll be holding her over my shoulder and I will hear her sweet chatter in my ear.  She is a doll, and she has my heart.

This is a short video of Emery and her namesake, her Nana...



IMG 3251 from Erin Dukes on Vimeo.

Pop is quite fond of his little Em, too...


You are such a blessing, little girl!  We cannot wait to watch you grow day by day, year by year.  We love you, sweet one!

Thursday, July 05, 2012

Salads, School and Scary Stuff...

Oh, me!  I've been so busy lately!  I am rarely on the computer anymore.  I have come to the conclusion that this is one of those times in life when I just have to hold my breath, go under water, and swim patiently until the next opportunity arises for me to come up and take another deep breath.  And, in saying that I don't want it to come across negative.  I wouldn't trade a second of all the craziness that is going on around me for a full day of peace and quiet.  I want the craziness, but it is just that, well, it is kind of CRAZY!  There is a crazy level of activity running around me like little blurs of color whizzing by at the speed of light, and all the blurs are talking at the same time which creates a lot of background noise that is hard to differentiate and distinctly hear.  There is a crazy lot of stress in the form of questions from our contractor, hammering that I hear, and decisions I must make, you know, like tomorrow or yesterday or asap.  And, there is craziness in the form of school will begin in a month, and I have lots of fun planning to do!!!  And, there is the craziness that comes with having two babies less than a year apart, both needing me most of the day!  CRAZY!  But, like I said, I would not trade any of these things.  So it is all good, just a little crazy, but still good!

Jack is experiencing lots of things for the first time this summer, and that is so fun!  He loves the pool, and this weekend I introduced him to the sprinkler, the slip and slide and the baby pool.  All of which he was very fond!  So fun to see his sweet smile as he tries all these new things for the very first time!

This has nothing to do with anything, but I made this simple yummy fruit salad for the Fourth.  I should have added bananas for white, but I didn't think of that yesterday!


I have begun school planning for the upcoming year!  I have made some decisions that I think will make next year a little easier.  I am bumping James up into the 3rd & 4th grade classes at our co-op. This is a grade ahead of where he should be, but I think he will do fine.  I am doing this so that he and Joshua will have all the same classes ~ with the exception of grammar and math.  They will have all the same recitations and assignments, so it will be easier for me to keep up with everything.  And, I am hoping that they will be able to work together on some things ~ like quizzing each other on Latin vocabulary or history fact sheets, etc.


I am, also, planning to give Joshua and James a lot of personal responsibility for their work.  Our co-op (really homeschooling in general) is a safe place to test and train them to take responsibility for their own schoolwork.  They will be responsible to read, complete, and keep up with their history, science, Latin, and literature assignments themselves.  They will be tested weekly or biweekly in these classes, so I will be able to monitor how well they are able to handle this responsibility.  The tests are given for the sole purpose of letting the parent know if the child is learning and retaining information as he/she should.  Our co-op does not keep record of grades ~ at least not at the elementary level.  So, they can make a mistake, learn from it, and not have to worry about the grade coming back to haunt them. It is a safe place to learn and grow!

This summer the boys have really enjoyed listening to me read them this book...


It is a funny light-hearted little book!  I have enjoyed reading it, too!

And, in other news, I have a new fear.  This should come as no surprise to those who know me ~ for I have many fears.  But, this one is warranted, I assure you!  My new fear is....

BIRDS!!!

Well, one particular bird, anyway!!

Oh, my goodness!  We have always had birds to nest in the corners of our front and back porches, but this year a different bird (Erik says they are Martins) has built a very tall nest in the southwest corner of our front porch. Yikes!  The mama bird is sooooo aggressive!  She dive bombs me every time I take Rain out!  I'm totally afraid to go outside.  I refuse to use my front door, and I always take the long way around the house in order to stay as far from her silly nest as possible.

I get being an overprotective mom.  I'm with her.  I understand that, but, lay off, silly bird!  I would never hurt your babies! NEVER!  I totally know her call.  When you walk out of my house at any given time of day, you can hear any number of birds chirping, but I know her call.  It stands out among the rest. It goes "tweet tweet" just like that, two tweets, and it sends chills down my spine every. single. time. I. hear. it.  She has gotten so close to my head that I have felt the wind of her wings across my face. SCARY!  She is relentless, and I cannot wait until her babies take flight, and she goes AWAY!  I read on the internet (google comes in such handy at times like these) that they are afraid of light reflecting off tin foil.  So, if you see me wearing a tin foil hat while walking my dog, you will now understand why!

And, I think that is all I have to say presently, but I will be back soon!  I have three posts that must be written before I forget them ~ including one about my oldest son's recent trip to basketball camp at DUKE University.  Yes, you read that correctly. My tarheel loving husband sent his beloved to the enemy camp! :-)

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Slowly Moving Forward...

We really tried to make it easy on ourselves this summer.  We didn't sign the boys up for baseball.  We decided to take the summer off.  It was going to be a peaceful slow-moving season where we focused on adjusting to our sweet new addition, Emery, and we hung out as a family.  Well, we are adjusting to having 6 children, and we are spending a good deal of quality time together swimming, grilling out, and playing in the gym.  BUT, this season has not been peaceful or slow!  The renovation has taken much longer than expected.  Which, I realize, is to be expected, but still.....

Some days the hammering drives me insane!  And, some days the silence, which means nothing is being done over there, is even more deafening...  We are living out of bins and boxes with a baby sleeping beside our bed and a baby sleeping in our closet.  All the upstairs rooms are overflowing, and we are just plain READY!!!


My phone is full of pictures like these...








Thankfully amidst the chaos we are having fun. Jack loves the water...



The older they get, the closer they become...


 And, Em is just a joy...



I love to watch the boys PLAY!  They are so good at it!!  Sometimes I sneak in their room just to watch the wildness.  I love watching them make toys zoom around the room and talk and fight....  They have such vivid imaginations!



And, believe it or not, they can clean that mess up quite quickly!

We renovated once before, so I remember this overwhelmed feeling.  And, I know that this too will pass, and one day we will not have men around the house hammering and drilling.  But, for now life is a bit full and cluttered, and I envy the day when I can wake up to a home not under construction! :-)

Friday, June 15, 2012

He Said He Built the Gym for the Boys...

but I am not so sure....



Untitled from Erin Dukes on Vimeo.

Monday, June 11, 2012

Field Day

When I began homeschooling, I knew two or three families in my small town who already home schooled their children. So, I invited them to a Saturday morning brunch at my house.  I asked them to invite any other mothers from our community who also homeschooled.  So, five of us met together that morning to plan a year of playdates!  We decided to get the children together once a month for a holiday themed party or a field trip.  I wasn't sure if it would actually work, but it has!!!  And, now we have a yahoo group and are growing new families all the time!  We even have mom's night outs!  It has been a sweet little group to be a part of!  The boys look forward to the parties and play dates, and I look forward to hanging out with the mothers!  

Our play date for May was a family field day!  So fun!


The children were dividing into age groups and competed in various events.










The father/son three legged race...

The winners!
Giving instructions...
Free throw shooting contest...



The awards ceremony...


The family fun continued after we left field day!  The boys and I just finished reading Where the Red Fern Grows.  So, I bought the movie so that they could watch it.  Here they are after baths waiting for me to push play!  Joshua and James were dressed as red bone coon hounds, and Elijah was dressed as a raccoon!

Watch out, sweet Lije!

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